Connect with your personal belonging and erotic longing through embodying breath practices; mindful, loving touch and ecstatic play

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Sacred HEARTistry

Hand painted custom mandalas with the INTENTION of capturing the etheric essence of your desired affirmation. 

Transformational HEARTistry

How may I inspire your DESIRE or better yet, what does your heart and soul long for? I love to co-create RITUALS that support your journey of (re)connection to radical selfLOVE, deeper embodiment, PLEASURE and personal transformation.


Hello! My name is Raynefyre Grayce [ rān fīʹər | ɡrās ]

I like to spend my time playfully queering the intersections between embodied sexual pleasure, gender expression and heart centred spirituality.

My passion is all about creating opportunities for exploring INTENTIONAL ecstatic CONNECTION and sharing tools for cultivating self love, compassion, authentic emotional expression and QUEERING erotic embodiment. This can happen IN PERSON through client lead, erotic body awakening MASSAGE, guided MOVEMENT and ecstatic BREATH exploration.


I am currently booking one or two hour private sessions in my Private Studio.

Or meet me online for a guided ecstatic BREATH journey.

See what I currently offer

Their Experience

I am a graduate of the Urban Tantra Professional Practice Training Program and a lifelong seeker and practitioner of queer-based-spirituality.  A curious cultivator of surrender based, vitality promoting, pleasure focused practices, giving space to sensations, and relief of tensions, blockages or numbing disconnect. My most valuable learning is to be present with what is and meet it with GRACE.

In the past 5 years I have co-facilitated ecstatic breath journeys for groups of up to 50 through Zoom and in real life at Stockholm PRIDE and Scandinavia’s regional BURN events. My team and I founded a queer-centred camp at the Borderland. It’s basis is on providing a safer ritual space for connection to radical self love and expression, tantra inspired workshops and kinky play. Our venue welcomed other burners to host their own workshops and events in our bookable tipi throughout the week.

Presently, I am enrolled as a student with the Institute of Somatic Sex Education. Here I find belonging within an ethical body of qualified community sexperts, queerdos and an abundance of resources.

With a focus on playfully cultivating pleasure and queer embodiment, I am devoted to be of service to the desires of women, trans, and genderful expressions beyond the binary.

What they VALUE

I value the freedom to practice radical self expression. This goes for myself and others. I value and support autonomy and agency. I believe that we can cultivate wellness from within. We all have inner pharmacies that guide our personal healing journeys.

Curiously tapping into our desires through play is transformative. I value having access to spaces that welcome respect, fresh perspectives, and supporting unconditional love. Sacred ritual spaces held together by shared intentions, respected boundaires and clear agreements.

I believe we are all responsible for our own experiences. I take ownership for my domain. This includes thoughts, emotions, actions, needs, desires and care.

You are so welcome, means that your glorious and not so glorious parts of you. How are you showing up today?

Offering a balance of WORK and PLAY

I offer, trauma informed, erotic body awakening massage with a focus on curious, whole body exploration and expanding sexual pleasure. I work with cis-women and gender non-conforming folks who are interested in surrendering to the magic of asking to recieve. I also offer guided ecstatic breath journeys for individuals, couples, triads and groups both in my shared home and online.

I like to play. Is there a fantasy you’ve been hiding in secret? Perhaps you’re ready to experience a new sensation? Let’s co-create and adventure together.

Book your session today in my private home studio situated on the shared, unceded, ancestral Coast Salish territories of the xʷməθkʷəy̓əm (Musqueam), Sḵwx̱wú7mesh (Squamish), and səlilwətaɬ (Tsleil-Waututh) Nations. Colonially known as, Vancouver.

Ecstatic Breath Journey

A guided ecstatic meditation for individuals, couples, triads and groups. Learn some guided breath techniques and explore your wholeness.

Erotic Awakening Massage

How would you like to be touched? This pleasure-driven-active sensual massage is designed to meet you where you are at in each moment.

Choose your own Adventure

You will be invited to select from a menu of touch-based delicacies. I will guide your curiosity, playfully into the depths of your deepest longings.

“Raynefyre is attentive to my every desire. They have the capacity to hold me in the depths of my pleasure.” ~ erotic massage recipient

Curious? Book your free 30 Minute discovery call today

Sacred HEARTistry

Using universally recognized sacred geometric patterns and metallic acrylic paint on wood, these hand-painted custom mandalas can be a tool for meditation, relaxation, SEX magik or affirmation.

My collection has spread like a global wildfire and is displayed in most of the places I’ve lived, and visited in the last five years including: Sweden, Germany, New Mexico, Ontario and across British Columbia. Commissions have also been sent to the various corners of North America. Get a quote today

Capturing imagery through time lapse is one of the ways I like to express the beauty of the world I interact with. Enjoy 🤍