Erotic Embodiment Services

Welcome! My offerings are invitations to return home to your body. Whether you’re yearning to receive, deepen intimacy with your partner(s), or explore in community, each journey is crafted to meet you where you are.

I work through somatic sex education and sexological bodywork, modalities that centre learning through the body. This means practices are experiential, often guided through touch, breath, movement, and awareness. While I do offer online sessions, my preference is to work in person, where embodied learning and touch can fully support your growth.

Partner Intimacy

Eros in Community

Solo Journeys - Individual Embodiment Sessions

These sessions are a space for you to reconnect with your body, your pleasure, and your wholeness. Through the practice of somatic sex education and sexological bodywork, we move at your pace to explore touch, breath, movement, and consent-based practices that open new pathways to intimacy with yourself.

Investment: $250 per 90 minute session

This is for you if:

- You want to expand your capacity to feel pleasure.
- You’ve been of service to others and are ready to receive.
- You’re moving through shame or blocks around your sexuality and long to feel whole again.

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Send Raynefyre a Message

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I am very grateful to have received an erotic massage from Raynefyre, they are very professional, and really gifted with touch and attunement. I felt safe and supported in my wants, needs and limits, intake was super fluid and easy. Raynefyre is really grounded, friendly, both calm and energetic, the touch was perfect for me: firm, deep and confident when needed, and more gentle or subtle when appropriate. I felt good from head to toes afterwards, my relaxed body buzzing with aliveness. Highly recommend.

Anonymous | Montréal

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Desire Coaching for Queer + Tantra-Kink-Curious Couples + Polycules

Desire is easier to explore when we don’t have to do it alone. Using principles of somatic sex education, I support couples, triads, and polycules in discovering shared desires and building the skills to communicate, play, and connect more fully.

This journey supports you to:

- Learn consent and communication practices for erotic exploration
- Explore kink and play through guided, embodied experiments
- Develop shared touch practices that deepen trust and intimacy

Pricing + package options:

Exploration Teaser | Single 3-hr session: $400

Deepening + Savouring | Three 3-hr session package: $1,100 (save $100)

Mastery Journey | Six 3-hr session package: $2,200 (save $200)

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Relational wounds are healed in right relationship.

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Raynefyre was an excellent communicator; they create space for reflection and questions. Their replies were thoughtful and generous. They were receptive to whatever feelings and thoughts were present in the moment. That was so critical to creating safety for me. I learned that I could also be present and thoughtful and voice what was “alive in me” at any given moment and voice it when my needs and wants changed. I appreciated their modelling of qualities to which I aspire and loved the opportunity for such extended and extensive right brain, whole body play.

JL | Victoria

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Communal Erotic Exploration for Groups

Workshops, retreats, and community offerings bring people together to explore embodied pleasure, consent, and authentic connection in a group setting. These experiences are playful, expansive, and co-created. A unique opportunity to learn not only from me, but also from our collective body of wisdom.

Pricing varies by event.

Gathering in community offers a powerful mirror, a chance to witness, be witnessed, and expand our erotic field together. My group offerings are grounded in the frameworks of erotic breathwork, communal solo-pleasure and kink practices, and guided play labs exploring consent, touch and power.

Investment:

Public Workshops (2.5-3 hrs): $45 per participant

Private Groups up to 12 (2.5–3 hrs): $540 minimum

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Ecstatic Breathwork

Guided collective breath, self-touch and movement practices that activate erotic-life-force-energy in a safer, supported container.

Communal Solo Erotic Practices

Guided self-pleasure in community, learning to hold your own erotic experience while building collective presence.

Play Labs 

Facilitated explorations of touch, power, and relational play. Always grounded in collective agreements, consent, curiosity, and emergent desire.

Erotic Ritual

Choose Your Own Adventure

This can be a sex magic ritual that combines practices to meet your groups collective intention for the moment. Be it a celebration or a moment with grief or an offering for manifesting collective liberation. Let’s co-create something meaningful.

Tap into our embodied collective wisdom.

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From the moment I arrived at Raynefyre’s home for an ecstatic breathwork class I felt welcomed into a queer space of being. They guided us clearly through their practice which brought me into an exploratory space. My body responded and moved intuitively in surprising and delicious ways which reveals the power of their breathwork practice to me.

Afterwards and the next day I felt like a fire had been lit inside me – I was energized, alert, and I noticed that I was also breathing clearly through my nose (I’m usually a mouth breather). I wholeheartedly recommend Raynefyre as a breathwork teacher and invite you to give their experience a try!

– Gerard X Reyes, Certified Sexological Bodyworker and dancer | Montréal

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

What is Somatic Sex Education? 

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Somatic Sex Education is a body-centered approach to learning about sexuality that helps people reconnect with their sensual nature through direct, embodied experience. Instead of relying only on conversation, somatic sex educators guide clients through practices involving breath, movement, touch, body awareness, boundaries, communication, anatomy, and erotic exploration. These sessions may include educational touch, including genital and anal touch, offered for learning, healing, and pleasure.

Through this hands-on learning, students develop presence in their bodies, awaken inner sensitivity, and discover new layers of aliveness. Somatic Sex Education invites mindful awareness of the nervous system, allowing emotional and physical responses such as fear, arousal, love, or joy to be observed, regulated, and transformed.

This approach supports individuals and couples in addressing a wide range of sexual challenges, from difficulties with orgasm or ejaculation to navigating desire differences or exploring new forms of intimacy. It helps release internalized shame and bodily restrictions that limit pleasure in a culture that often disconnects us from erotic expression.

Ultimately, Somatic Sex Education opens pathways to greater pleasure, vitality, and integration across physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual dimensions.

What is Sexological Bodywork? 

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Sexological Bodywork is a body-based educational practice that helps people reconnect with their erotic energy and deepen their capacity for pleasure. It invites awareness of how emotions, memories, and habits are held in the body and offers a safe space to explore new sensations and ways of relating to oneself and others. Through guided breath, movement, touch, and focused attention, clients learn to feel more present, alive, and connected to their bodies.

Certified Sexological Bodyworkers use a client-centered approach that supports personal growth, healing, and erotic empowerment. Sessions may include body mapping, breathwork, conscious touch, erotic massage, or self-pleasure coaching, always within a clearly defined, one-way touch framework. This allows clients to explore arousal and embodiment without pressure or performance, creating space for genuine discovery and release.

All practitioners follow a strict Code of Ethics that ensures safety, consent, and professionalism in every session. Sexological Bodywork recognizes that pleasure, sexual health, and erotic education are essential parts of human wellbeing, and offers a pathway toward greater wholeness, confidence, and connection.

What happens in a session? 

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Each session is unique and shaped by your learning goals and by meeting your intension. We begin by checking in and practice dropping into the body. There are a variety of core tools to choose from including:

Boundary exercises
Consent games
Trauma informed touch
Pleasure coaching
Genital mapping
Affirmative ritual touch
Genital/Anal de-armouring
Ecstatic Erotic Massage
Pelvic scar tissue release
Anal Massage
Sexual relationship coaching

All sessions end with integration and close with sharing what's been learned.

How do you ensure that consent and boundaries are respected in your sessions?

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In my work as a Somatic Sex Educator, every session begins with a clear and co-created agreement. Together, we explore your intentions, desires, and boundaries before any touch or activity takes place. These agreements shape the framework of our session, ensuring that everything we do supports your comfort, curiosity, and learning.

Consent is always ongoing. You are in charge of your “yes,” your “no,” and your “I’m not sure.” Throughout our time together, you’ll be invited to check in with yourself, to ask for the kind of touch or attention you want, and to pause, stop, slow down, or ask for more whenever you need to. Part of the learning is discovering how to listen to your body’s truth in each moment.

Practicing consent is not about perfection but about presence. In an imperfect world, boundaries can sometimes blur or shift. My commitment is to stay attuned, to repair if something feels off, and to keep learning how to honor both your boundaries and my own. This mutual consent creates the foundation for safety, growth, and authentic embodiment.

Do I need to be naked? 

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You choose how dressed or undressed you are during each session or ritual. What will support your comfort and boundaries? Erotic learning doesn’t require nudity, though it can include it when it feels right. There are some activities that may require partial nudity, but you will be informed well in advance, so you can choose.

Do I have to work with touch? 

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Not at all. Every session is tailored to your needs. Some clients begin with guided breathwork, mindfulness practices, movement or conversation. Touch is always by invitation, fully consensual, and optional.

Can we work online? 

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Yes, I offer online sessions. While much of this work is most potent in person, online sessions can focus on breathwork, movement, and guided practices to support your erotic and relational growth.

Do I need prior experience with erotic or breathwork practices? 

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Not at all. These sessions are designed for beginners and experienced practitioners alike.

What if I feel a strong romantic or erotic attraction to you during our work together?

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It’s completely natural to feel attraction in this kind of intimate, embodied work. When we connect through presence, touch, breath, and trust, it’s normal for desire, affection, or longing to arise. These experiences are welcomed as part of your exploration, not something to be ashamed of or acted upon. Our sessions are held within a clear ethical container that supports your growth, healing, and agency.

As a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, I follow the Code of Ethics outlined by the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers. This means that all touch and erotic education within sessions are always for your learning and empowerment, never for the practitioner’s gratification. If romantic or sexual feelings emerge, my role is to help you stay curious about them, explore what they reveal, what they awaken, and how they can serve your deeper embodiment, while maintaining the integrity and safety of our professional relationship.

It’s also important that you have additional support outside of our sessions, whether from a therapist, close friend, partner, or community member. These connections can help you process and integrate what arises here so that your erotic awakening is grounded, resourced, and fully your own.

What if I feel nervous or unsure?  

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Nervousness is always welcome, it means your body is taking care of you as you choose to explore something new. Part of our work is finding our way to co-regulation so you can relax into curiosity. I have some embodiment tricks up my sleeve that will help be with the nervous feelings.

How do I book and what’s the cancellation policy? 

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You can book by visiting my Contact Page. There you can either send me a message or book a free discovery call.

To receive a full refund of your deposit for a first appointment, cancellations must be made at least 48 hours in advance.

You may reschedule your session up to 24 hours before your appointment for a $50 rescheduling fee.

Cancellations made with less than 24 hours’ notice will be charged 50% of the deposit amount. However, if you rebook within 14 days, any fees paid will be waived and applied toward your new session.

Thank you for your understanding and respect for this policy, which helps maintain clear boundaries and fairness for all clients.

Embodied learning begins with a single yes to yourself.