It’s September 10th, and I’m sitting in the sunlight listening to the water roll up onto the shore and settle over the rocks beneath it. There’s a blue heron out on the water, surfing on a piece of driftwood as though this is the most natural thing in the world. The...
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Stories from a Wheel of Consent Retreat for Erotic Touch Providers
This spring, I joined a Wheel of Consent retreat for erotic touch practitioners as both assistant and participant. What unfolded was an exploration of desire, care, power, play, and the exquisite complexity of being human. Through ritual, erotic practice, and embodied learning, I found myself confronting old assumptions about consent and discovering new depths of trust, responsibility, and aliveness. This essay offers an intimate glimpse into that experience, including explicit reflections on three rituals that continue to shape the way I understand touch, choice, and the courage to want what I truly want.
From Handcrafted Mandalas to Round Prints: The Evolution of my Sacred Geometry Artistry
What began as a search for round panels and a day spent cutting wood beside my dad has grown into a decade-long meditation on sacred geometry, balance, and beauty. In this story, I share how my handmade mandalas evolved from wood and stain to luminous round prints that hold the same spirit of wholeness and connection.
Post-Memorial Cleansing: Fire, Breath, and Waters
The memorial for my maternal Grandma happened this past weekend, and I feel good about how I showed up. Proud that I organized, co-created, and held space for everyone to come together in commemoration.
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